Remembering Valentine’s Day

Wednesday is Valentine’s Day. I remember back to my grade one class with Mrs. Benson and the excitement that grew in our class. Each of us came with our cards to be put into a large Valentine’s box that on the day was opened.
We could hardly wait to the appointed hour. She provided treats to all of us. Finally at the appointed hour, probably after recess and close to the end of the day. As we sat at our desks, Mrs. Benson began distributing the cards that we stuffed into our paper doily Valentine’s cardholders. We read each name and then carefully put the card away.
It never mattered that we received duplicates. Back then, store bought cards were the most treasured although I think many a parent worked with their six year old to make cards. The cards came home, and I remember emptying the cards over the floor and going through the cards with my younger brother and mother.
Over the course of the week, the cards were reviewed more than once.
I can’t remember when Valentine’s Day became less important in school, but it did. Today, I am told that for the youngest grades, Valentine’s Day, and the giving and receiving of cards, may be the most important day in school. Excitement continues to grow throughout the week leading to the day.
As I grew older, married, and had kids of our own, my wife Marnie would make trips to the stores with each son in tow, picking cards for the boys to give to classmates. And armed with class lists provided by teachers, our sons would address each card enclose them in an envelope and address to every member of the class. Valentine’s Day focused on our children.
It didn’t stop there. Cards were also mailed or delivered to grammas and cousins, who responded by having cards ready for them.
Grandmothers, I think are especially fond of Valentine’s Day because it provides them with another reason to gift their grandchildren.
Now that our children are grown and away, the excitement of Valentine’s Day seems diminished. I enjoy cooking and particularly like to make something special for a romantic candle lit evening. However on Wednesday, Marnie will be busy with her Sparks and I have committed to a Canadian Bass Championship meeting. The special meal will have to wait to the weekend.
–Jim Cumming,
Publisher